Before you confess

Frequently
Asked Questions.

Everything I am repeatedly asked, answered clearly. Read this before requesting a session.

How should I arrive? Do I need to bring anything? What should I wear?

There is no dress code. Arrive clean and well presented.

Outfits for feminisation and related play can be provided. All three studios are well equipped with a wide range of toys and equipment, so you do not need to bring anything unless you wish to.

If you have a particular toy you would like me to use on you, you are welcome to bring it provided we have discussed and agreed its use beforehand.

Where do sessions take place?

I currently session from three private London studios:

Hammersmith — The Dominatrix School
Marylebone — BunkHaus
Walthamstow — Amanita Studio

You can select your preferred location when requesting a session. Studio hire is additional to my session fee and varies according to location and session length.

Exact arrangements will be confirmed with you once your booking is secured.

Aren't you a bit young to be a Domme?

Yes, I'm young. You've presumably noticed.

My age has very little to do with my ability to establish boundaries, communicate clearly or take control of a session. If you require someone older in order to submit to them, I'm simply not the Domme for you.

Do I need experience as a submissive?

Not at all. I am very happy to see beginners.

If this is your first professional session, tell me. You do not need to arrive knowing exactly what you enjoy or how you are “supposed” to behave.

We will discuss your interests, limits and expectations beforehand. Curiosity and an ability to communicate honestly are considerably more useful to me than experience.

What happens before our session?

Submitting a request through my website is an introduction, not a confirmed booking.

If your request interests me, we will speak further via your preferred contact method. This gives us an opportunity to discuss what draws you to submission, your interests, experience, limits and anything else I need to know before deciding whether we are suited to one another.

If I decide to proceed, I will send you my current availability for your chosen studio. Your appointment is only secured once we have agreed the details and I have received the required booking payment.

How do I secure my booking?

To secure an appointment, I require the full studio hire fee plus 50% of my session fee in advance.

For example, a two-hour session with me in Walthamstow is £250, with an additional £100 studio hire fee. Your booking payment would therefore be £225: the £100 studio fee plus £125, representing half of my session fee.

The remaining 50% of my session fee is payable on arrival, before our session begins. You are also welcome to settle the remaining balance in advance if you prefer.

Your appointment is not secured until the initial booking payment has been received.

How are boundaries and safety handled?

Your boundaries and mine are discussed before we play.

I only offer activities that I am confident carrying out, and I will never attempt something simply because a submissive requests it. Some forms of play require particular knowledge and risk management; if I do not consider myself sufficiently experienced in something, I do not offer it.

You are expected to communicate honestly about relevant limits before and during our session. We will also establish an appropriate way for you to communicate if something needs to slow down or stop.

Submission requires trust. I take that responsibility seriously.

Do you use safewords?

Yes. Depending on what you are most comfortable with and the nature of our play, I use a traffic-light system, an agreed safeword, pre-agreed non-verbal signals, or a combination of these.

Before we begin, we will establish how you can communicate that you need something to slow down or stop. This is particularly important for sensory deprivation, restraint and forms of play where verbal communication may be limited.

Are there activities you don't offer?

Yes.

I do not currently offer sounding, scat play, most medical play or unclothed face-sitting.

My interests page is not exhaustive, so you are welcome to ask about something that isn't listed. However, nothing should be assumed to be available until I have explicitly agreed to it.

My boundaries are not negotiable. Repeatedly requesting an activity I have already declined will not change my answer.

Can I cancel or reschedule a session?

Studio hire is non-refundable once booked.

Notice givenRefund
More than 7 days before the session100%
3–7 days before the session50%
Less than 3 days before the sessionNo refund

A confirmed session may be rescheduled once, provided you give me at least three days' notice. A £30 rescheduling fee applies, along with any additional studio costs caused by the change.

What happens if I disrespect your boundaries?

My boundaries are absolute.

Touching me without permission, repeatedly requesting activities I have declined, deliberately disregarding safety instructions or otherwise violating the boundaries established between us may result in the session ending immediately without refund.

I use personal safety procedures for every appointment. Trusted third parties are aware of my location and scheduled session times and have instructions to act if I fail to check in appropriately.

Threatening, violent or otherwise unlawful behaviour will be reported to the studio and, where appropriate, the police.

Can I contact you outside of sessions?

You are welcome to contact me regarding an existing or prospective booking.

Access to me outside our sessions should not, however, be assumed to form part of your session fee. My time and attention are mine to give.

If we establish an ongoing dynamic that extends beyond the dungeon, its expectations and boundaries will be discussed separately.

Do you offer financial domination?

Yes. Financial domination is one of my interests, but it should not be confused with ordinary booking arrangements.

Session fees, studio hire and booking payments are practical costs associated with seeing me professionally. Findom is a separate consensual dynamic and will only form part of our interaction where we have mutually established it as such.

Can I bring you a gift?

Of course.

Gifts are never required in order to book a session, but thoughtful offerings are appreciated.

If you need inspiration, you may consult my Wishlist.

Will our session be discreet?

Discretion is important to me. I do not publicly disclose the identities or personal details of my submissives.

Sessions take place in independent third-party studios, however, and those businesses operate under their own privacy and booking practices.

I expect the same discretion regarding my private information in return.

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